I’ll try to find the patronise flag in the pref and lower it to ‘kind daddy’ instead of ‘self-righteous uncle’ 
update: sorted to new values:
Number of posts a user has to make in a row in a topic before being reminded about too many sequential replies = 20 instead of 2
Number of posts a user has to make to the same person in the same topic before being warned. = 20 instead of 3
Is that libertarian enough?